Empowering Emotions

A church-like silence enveloped the audience as I stepped onto the stage in my underwear and bra, transforming pain into a powerful collective ritual. The performance, Dressed By You, became a spell, allowing the release of the most painful words. As Schubert’s Ave Maria resonated, emotions surged, leaving us trembling in its wake. The evening, a blend of catharsis and celebration, united generations through music and shared experiences. It was not merely the conclusion of a project, but a profound new beginning, reminding us that certain moments linger, transform, and continue to live within us.

Today, January 28, the “Emotional Respectful Men” project was presented to the Commission for Equal Opportunities and the Commission for Educational and School Policies of the XI Municipality of Rome. In a challenging yet receptive area like Corviale, the project generated significant interest. The Commissions, led by industry experts, appreciated the innovative approach and the ability to connect with the everyday experiences of young adults. At a time when emotional education is overlooked, initiatives like ERM represent a crucial response to shape a new, aware, and respectful generation. Learn more!

Men’s mental health is a pressing issue that often goes unnoticed, with societal norms pushing men to appear strong and emotionally unyielding. Yet, the statistics reveal a troubling truth: men face significantly higher suicide rates and are less likely to seek help. The Emotionally Respectful Men (ERM) programme aims to challenge these harmful stereotypes by fostering a healthier, more expressive masculinity. By creating safe spaces for dialogue and emotional education, we can empower men to break the silence surrounding their mental health. Discover how we can work together to transform the narrative and promote genuine emotional well-being.

Deconstructing romantic love reveals how ingrained myths shape men’s understanding of relationships. Pressures like being a provider and the idea of a ‘better half’ can foster emotional dependency and unrealistic expectations. Our Emotional Respectful Men (ERM) project challenges these ideals, promoting a healthier perspective on love that values independence and mutual respect. Join us in dismantling these myths to foster emotional intelligence and pave the way for fulfilling relationships. Discover a new masculinity and love that empower rather than restrict.

Redefining male friendship is essential in today’s world, where traditional notions of the “bro code” often hinder emotional expression and support. For too long, men have been conditioned to view vulnerability as a weakness, leading to superficial relationships and increased mental health struggles. However, a transformative shift is underway. The Emotional Respectful Men (ERM) project is paving the way for deeper, more authentic connections among men. By normalising vulnerability and fostering open conversations, we can redefine what it means to be a friend. Discover how small changes can lead to profound impacts on male friendships and emotional well-being.

On January 23rd, 2025, the Emotional Respectful Men Final Event captivated participants in Rome. The evening featured a powerful performance by Barbara Lalle and Loredana Margheriti, encouraging the audience to confront their deepest pains. This was followed by Lalle’s project, “Buck up and cry,” which challenged gender norms by showcasing male emotions through art. Engaging discussions and live music fostered a profound connection among activists, educators, and artists. Discover the impact of this transformative night on redefining emotional expression for men.

Skill Up recently concluded the Italian pilot testing of the ERM materials, yielding inspiring results! Led by trainers Maria Chiara Di Francesco and Asia Silvestri, participant feedback was overwhelmingly positive, emphasizing the importance of discussing emotions’ impact on behavior. The training created a safe space for young adults to address sensitive issues like gendered violence and emotional literacy, fostering connections for meaningful change.

Delve into the transformative experience of the Learning, Teaching, and Training Activity (LTTA) held in Córdoba from October 2nd to 4th, 2024. This inspiring event, part of the Emotional Respectful Men (ERM) project, brought together educators and trainers to challenge stereotypes surrounding masculinity and emotional intelligence. Participants engaged in thought-provoking modules, from questioning gender norms in pop culture to exploring the dynamics of love and codependency. Discover how these discussions fostered a welcoming atmosphere for vulnerability and personal growth, leaving attendees empowered to implement their learnings in their communities. Join us in breaking stereotypes and reshaping the narrative!

These last three months of 2024 have seen a groundbreaking trial in France, where Gisele Pelicot confronted the horrors inflicted by her husband. After a decade of being drugged and assaulted, she boldly declared, “Shame must change sides,” challenging societal norms. Her powerful statement resonates with the historic case of Franca Viola in 1965, who also defied stigma and remained unyielding. Both women symbolize resilience, shifting the focus from victimhood to empowerment. Discover how their stories inspire a movement for justice and female liberation across Europe.